This erotic dialogue, therefore, serves to unleash the interest in new sexual acts that might not usually be of interest."Individuals can become comfortable and familiar with using phrases and language and descriptions that express their needs and wants," Dr.Fran Walfish, Beverly Hills psychotherapist, author of found the more comfortable we are talking about sex, the more satisfactory our sex lives will become.Sexuality creates intimacy for a couple and becomes the glue of the relationship.Good sex is a barometer of a good relationship.“Sex isn't just a physical release or an expression of love and affection.Sex always seems to be the line that the “good girl” crosses where they just have to screw someone in order to be considered a “bad girl.” Pop culture has perpetuated this complex from songs like Robin Thicke’s “Blurred Lines” where he “knows” she wants it because she’s an animal and it’s in her nature, to Usher’s “Yeah!” where Ludacris acknowledges “we” (the men) want a lady in the street and freak in the bed.
The “good girl” complex, similar to the Madonna-Whore complex, is just one facet of what men want.
Dirty talk is a liberating experience for women to break down this mindset and become comfortable in their sexuality and desires.
It’s where people invite their fantasies and where that straight-laced version of a person will enjoy being tied up, being called certain kinds of names, and using dirty words for genital parts when otherwise they wouldn’t think of such behavior, says Walfish.
A larger hypothalamus for men means more circulating testosterone to stimulate the desire for sex.
A lower testosterone level and a smaller hypothalamus in women, on the other hand, means their sex drive is not as strong as a man’s.